I am going to do myself a terrible disservice here and tell you upfront that I think I am a guy that grows on you. Despite having many friends and being a friend to many, I can't get a second date on this thing..lol.. OK, I am kidding a bit but that special someone is still eluding me. So to those that are still reading, if you're just shopping, indecisive, a serial dater, don't like kids or just wondering who is this nut (unless its in a good way), you should probably move on. That said, I am an educated, athletic, outgoing.