I am looking for a friend, a lover and partner...and I will not settle...harsh but true. I want to compliment someone as much as they compliment me. I am in NO rush as I take my time in important decisions such as this. I am confident and independent and I don't want to loose either. Must be friends first. I have accomplished many things in travel, parenting, education and my career goals but I have so many more to tackle. Looking for others who are interested in learning to play squash, swing dancing or scuba diving...these are the things next on my list of things to do. Anyone interested? Obviously, I am looking for someone who is active, like myself and tries to maintain a healthy lifestyle. I plan to live a long healthy life, and so should my partner. Must also be sarcastic or at least understand it's place!!